Performing fellatio or having it performed by relaxing the back of the throat, eliminating the gag reflex, to allow deeper penetration of the penis. My girlfriend enjoys the power she feels in making me climax by deep throating. by The Doctor September 28, Get the mug. Get a deep throating mug for your friend. For me, placing my hand on a woman's throat is never about choking or breath play at all. It is about deep intimacy and incredible trust. I love to place my left hand on my sub's throat firmly but gently. It is a very vulnerable and fragile place on her delicate body that which requires. 4) If you do it well, guys go sexpor.coally at the climax and you still keep it in your throat. (if he's nice, he will buy you something nice next sexpor.co kidding :P) For us personally, we dont do it often, but enough times to keep him happy:P (Its actually cute how he hesitates to ask,coz he knows its not so pleasant for.